KS, have you tried calling the company directly? maybe they can just switch to your name, w/o needing him to call? not sure if that is possible, but worth a shot if you haven't tried.
as for holidays, maybe make out a fair sounding schedule and e-mail it to him. I did that way back when we first separated. I know, way ahead of myself there, but holidays are important to me and I wanted to sort them out (also, gave me control over something, when I had so little elsewhere).
good luck.
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