Thats what I get too, "its all your fault..." I said problems are created by 2 people For every action, there is a reaction whether it maybe positive/negative. We tend to look more at negatives than anything else in our lives. As a result, we find faults. We tend to overlook all the positives in life.
Does anyone awake and say to him/herself, what a beautiful day it is, I feel so alive? Instead, we say its Monday and back to work, wah wah wah. Or we would say not another day with the spouse with his/her b***** mood.
See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...