Hi Breton,

You sound strong. My H also is in the "protector" role. His OW is a young, mixed up girl getting off welfare and a ex-husband who is an alcoholic.

H told me he feels like "superman" when he is with her. I remember telling him if that was the case then he should "fly away". I am independent, strong, and opinionated. I can take care of myself and am looking for a real man.

It is almost like my H was 12 years old again. It is so sad.
I miss what he use to be like so much


Me: 45
H: 43
Married: 19 years
Dated 05 years
Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"

Kids: 16 (s)
13 (d)
2 (d)

"If god is for us, who can be against us"