Lastnight, W was sitting on the couch with me and my coworker called but I had my cell phone on vibrate. W felt the vibration and made a remark. I had planned to go out earlier with my coworker and I told him I probably would be late. He called at 9:30 and then showed up at the door - LOL.

W went to see who was at the door and she said if I was expecting him, I didnt replied and went outside to talk to him. He asked if I was still going out and if W knows I was. I told him I will still go, I put on my tennis shoe and told W I will be back.

W said if I am drinking to not come home and come home in the morning when I am a bit sober. We drove separate cars and went out. My coworker is also having M difficulties. Later, he told me his W got his arrested too. I had to LOL since I did the same thing to my W a few weeks ago.

My friend had invited some women for the night and I joined them, nothing wrong but I kept my boundaries. I didnt had anything to drink. We all ate at Pujols, pretty nice choice in a happening area. The women ate dinner and had some margaritas. I chose cokes - GREAT!!!

We then went to an African restaurant and bar that has a small night club. While there, I got into it since I do like reggae a lot! I never had so much fun being sober. That was a great experience for me. W didnt call me at all and I didnt call her either.

I came home at 3:00 AM, I spoke with one of the women who also is having M difficulties and she recently got M. We had a long talk and then I shook her hand and left to go home. This is the first time Ive been with someone different and I treated her with so much respect - not as if I was looking for p****.

I wanted to wake up W so she can see that Im sober but I decide not to since I didnt had to proove her wrong.

This morning I had a doctors appt and I went to it. W had to go to her class orientation so I got back in time for her to leave. D was being grumpy since she wanted to go Bye Bye. I told W I will take D for a ride then so she cant be so grumpy.

W said well take her to the class orientation and pick her up afterwards. I am like - hell yeah I will. W asked if I was drinking last night and I said I didnt drank anything and had nothing but cokes. I told her she can smell my breathe and last night when I returned home I wanted to awake her.

W was a little critical about this but it was more of disbelief that I went out and stayed sober. This was a great experience for me since now I am sure I can go out to sports bar and such while still having fun being sober. I am happy to have done so.

See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...