Haven't updated much in the last couple days, so here goes.
Wife called early Thursday to see if she could come over to use my computer, hers is broken beyond repair, mainly old. So she comes over and brings dinner with her, not something she mentioned when she called. She and our son were here for a little over an hour, we ate, then she jumped on the computer while son and I took garbage out and dog for a walk. When we got back she was pretty much done with the computer. She sat around and we chatted about weather, news that sort of stuff. She finally said it was time for them to go home and asked me for my laundry , I know, I am so easy . So I walked them out to the car as usual, got our son and my laundry in and said I would see them later. She turned toward me asked "Would you like to go out Friday or Saturday night with them, and her aunt and uncle. I responded "I would see and let her know tomorrow morning", she said "okay sounds good". Gave me a hug and said "I will talk to you tomorrow". Got in her car and drove away. I almost fell over in shock. I would have thought I was dreaming, but I was outside and still had my clothes on so it had to be real.
Now today,
Well her aunt and uncle aren't coming. So I picked up our son from summer school and decided on the way home to pick up some take N bake pizzas. As normal from being picked up he calls me or her depending on who he is with, so he calls her and guess what ? She asks if we are getting enough pizza for her to come over and eat with us. So now she comes over twice in two days, she has not been to my place twice in a month, excluding picking up or dropping off our son since this whole situation started. Well she came over, only stayed an hour, but friendly the whole time. We did the normal chit chat stuff and now all of us are going to the water park here on sunday, will wait and see if she actually ends up going with us though. No hug or anything tonight but did thank me for dinner. So all in all, more interaction in the last 24 hours than the last month combined, and all her doing. I do not think any where close at the moment to start anything though. I acted completely normal as if this was a regular evening at home with the three of us. Showed no emotion towards her than just everyday interactions so I think I did well. We shall see.. Them WAW can drive ya nuts !!!
I have been having fun without her lately, so has our son when he has been with me, so I have finally been good at GAL and doing all those other DB'ing things, maybe she is waking up to some degree. Won't get any hopes up, but it is kind of a nice feeling at the moment.
Well rambled on enough.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07