Very interesting, prodigalwife. I have no idea what kind of therapy, if any, OW had when she split with her H. I just can't help but think that there's gotta be something wrong with someone for them to make a snap decision to end their M right after they've had a baby, and if they're not coping with the child, then that'll put more stress on their M, so PPD seems like a reasonable assumption to make.
I was telling my brother about my latest discoveries, (haven't told anyone else in my family yet, but had to tell someone, so swore my brother to secrecy), and he was saying that obviously OW is just as messed up as H. If she did have untreated PPD, then that's probably true. She's latching onto H just as much as he's latching onto her because they're both completely messed up.
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Me:30 H:30 Together:10yr H left:Oct3'06,couple weeks before 5th wed anniv. No Kids OW bomb:Jan19'07 My thread: He filed.