trekker,

Wow, those are words of my own during my affair almost verbatim. I would like to say that it means your husband misses you and his life with you, but I just don't know. Sometimes I worry about giving advice on here. I feel like I'm just one woman, one flawed woman who was lucky enough to get a second chance. What do I know about other people's marriages? How can I tell you or anyone what their WAS is thinking? I'm afraid I'll tell one of you something completely wrong, disappoint you with high hopes because I came home just like you all want your spouses to do.

Your husband probably isn't sure anymore that he's so perfectly happy with the OW. He wants to know how far you've moved on and if he's passed his point of no-return.


The grass may be greener, but then again, it may also be astroturf.
~Amy C Brown