Like I said in a previous post, deep down I knew my husband was a better man than my OM. I was torn by the fantasy, but still wanting my husband. He loved me, and I knew it, but I couldn't reconcile it with my "love" for the OM. I was confused and throughout the whole mess I was fighting for happiness. I just didn't always know what that meant.
At first I didn't hear anything my husband said. I didn't want to hear anything that might punch holes in the fantasy. But I hears it, even when I pretended not to. And it ate at me. I carried what I was doing to my husband with me every moment of every day. The thing that my husband kept repeating is that he did not want a divorce, that it wasn't his choice.
hey Pro wife,
I care what you have to say. I think this is what my W is going through. She is not happy and does not know why. I think she thought if she went back in time to her ex B she would find it. I think "At first I didn't hear anything my husband said. I didn't want to hear anything that might punch holes in the fantasy. But I hears it, even when I pretended not to."is my Wifes Problem also
thanks for being here
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
