Thanks Val for your reply. I've been there too as far as getting my hopes up only to be disappointed yet again. I've been thinking about this alot today and I think you're right. It's his problem and he needs to deal with it himself. I stopped calling him months ago, so that's not a problem. I'll go back to focusing on myself--where I was 3 weeks ago before he said he wanted to come back home, but then did nothing after that. I'm physically tired from trying to figure him out since it's pointless anyway!
