You made me laugh with your comment about baby steps. For all I know, my XH could be taking them in the wrong direction too.
I could bring up reconciling again since he already did, but at this point I'm not sure if that's what I want. I have said something along those lines about a new relationship when he brought up moving home three weeks ago, but then nothing happened. He called fewer times during the week and then the weekend he had off of work, he basically blew off our son and me. He's too busy going to bars and partying like he's 20 and if he was honest with himself and me--he doesn't want to change that right now.
So, I just think I need to back off for now. I'm thinking that if he really wants us to try and get back together, he would make the effort regardless of what I said when I left the voicemail. Does that make sense?
