yeah, I need some elaboration too.
I (until the TM I sent him to tell him to get his mail) haven't been calling him or emailing him or whatever.

I know that in a sense I look better off than most since he isn't (as far as i know) involved with anyone else. But in another way it's worse because he isn't "in the fog". And he is purposely trying to get in the fog.

I didn't plan to write a Plan B letter or anything; more like fall off the planet.

Inquiring minds. \:\)

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing