What kind of converstation?

[yawmom]

I read the DivorceBusters site, I read the MarriageBuilders site, and midlifewives site...it's very rare to see any good news.
What game are we playing? Giving them space, sounding happy when you are falling apart, backing off with no contact, letting them sort things out when we wait to see if they will come back.

I'm lonely, I want my H and page after page tells me not to count on it. I look at success posts, they are 2 years old if not more.
I know you try to rebuild, make the most of your life etc...hard when you hurt and your brain constantly thinks of H, your body aches from not being held, nobody calls to say they love you anymore...wait...sit and wait, for what? For them to say "been real,see ya"?

I keep looking for hope and only find divorce postings. Do they come to their senses and want us back? Looks very glim.
H was great at romance, holding hands, calling 3-4 times a day ending with I love you's, hugging and now zilch.
The sites say they get tired of the OW, he picked a winner druggie jailbird. He'll prob wait til she gets out in 6months...I'm suppose to hope he wakes up during this time?

Venting...drained and feeling hopeless.