Part of it is that I think H are not 100% commmitted as we are. Even now, after moving the whole family away, once he still told me (in similar words as below), "I made the decision (to stay). Most times I think it's the right decision, sometimes I don't know. (PAUSE) Sometimes no". (that was made after one of our argument). Your H's action is saying that he wants to be with you more than with OW. But as with all A, the pull there is so strong, he is just not sure. I guess it's like us buying clothing or other stuff. We always wonder about the one that we did not pick.
Hang in there.


M 38, H 38, two sons
Met 20 years ago
Married 13 years
Bomb: Oct, 2006
DB: Started in Dec, 2006
H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007
H back home and piecing?