this morning I asked H where the apt. complex was that he had scouted out as a place to live when he left us, and he said what are you talking about, so I repeated it and the area he said it was in, and he said that wasn't where it was and why does it matter. So, I said I was curious. He refused to talk about it, said it didn't matter, so I had to drop it. Earlier I asked him is he was wanting to sell our house when our S was grown up, and he said he wasn't even thinking about that, had no plans to sell, so I dropped it. If he is hiding anything from me, he hides it pretty well.
I guess we are still at the place we can't talk about things, unless he brings it up first. Well, I will just watch what I say.
On the plus side, he sometimes says LY instead of ILY, and today he said ILY when we spoke this evening. Of course, I said it first, but still...
I am not saying it as much, so he won't feel pressured, but I throw it in there occasionally
Well, I have the whole evening to myself, I think I will color my hair, and take a bubble bath.

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