Dom, can I ask what you mean about going dark being serious, not done lightly? guess I'm just asking for specifics.
I can't really go dark, since we have young kids and talk daily/see each other several times a week. but I have (for the most part) stopped calling him/creating reasons to call him. I've slipped a bit lately, but for the most part have held strong with that.
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