To be really effective, "going dark", has to be a serious undertaking.
it's also not one to be done lightly.

agent99, you are WAAAY better off than most people who decide to go dark.

if you cant take the stress, just quit working on "him" for a while, and make yourself happy.

You dont have to "go dark", to stop concentrating on him.
Hope you find something fun to occupy your weekend.
(i'm going hiking for a while)

enjoy

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle