I agree, its hard, but maybe try going dark like ks chick said. might help...if only to get your mind off of him for a bit.
I'm really sorry that you are going thru this. it just sucks.
I wish we all lived closer together. Oh well, in lieu of that, at least we have this board. I hate to think where I would be without this forum.
I think I have to go dark to keep my sanity.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing