I hear what you are saying OT and do agree but sometimes one does need to let off steam and have a bit of a whinge about the OW. NikkiByour post had me in stitches. The OW in my H's sitch was really predatory - she needs a W tattoo on her forehead.
Saffei
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength