1) Change nothing and continue to b!tch about your wife's drive. 2) Change nothing and be resigned to not getting the sex you want. 3) Stay married to your wife and get a lover. 4) Stay married to your wife and buy sex. 5) Divorce your wife and seek a relationship with a woman that has a higer drive. Remember though, that this high drive woman may indeed someday change . . . just like your wife did. 6) Take a very hard look at yourself and see if there is something about you or your behavior that is compounding the sex issue. Are you doing something that is causing this reaction with your wife. If you find something . . . change it. 7) Realize that you are both older and perhaps sex just isn't going to play the same role in your married life as it once did.
My advice to you if you choose to stay married is work on loving your wife for what she is, not for what you wish her to be. Love her because she is your wife and the mother of your children. This is what I'm trying to do and my resentment for my wife is so much less. . . sometimes I even catch myself having a bit of fun again.
