Puddle -I wrote you a post a while ago and my cranky connection lost it so I'll try again.
Completely forgotten about H which is good, I think.
However Jolene has been preying on my mind somewhat, espaecially the line: please don't take him just because you can.
What do I know about Jolene?

She's older than me
She's taller than me (big feet are just so attractive)
She's not as smart as me (she did some truly dumb things a while ago)
She knew H was M
She has to prove she can sustain a R because she's failed over and over
She needs a man who is solvent (he will be when the house is sold and I am ensconced in my trailer)
She is prepared to wreck my M and my family
She is doing to me what some OW did to her
She is not a nice woman

Oh dear. I'm starting to feel sorry for them both. Is this normal?

bar xxx


ME 54 H 58
M 30
Bomb: 01/12/07
H left : 09/01/07