I have read all three of your threads and I appreciate the advice from the other side.
My wife left me about 2.5 months ago, my thread is on loveshack.org but the people here seem so much more supportive.
anyways I have recently found that she was having an affair. Initially everything she said was what you said.
I was not like your husband I did express remorse and I still do. but like you she is angry that I just now realize it.
I have hurt her the way your husband has hurt you, I don't think I was as controlling though.
Anyways, you seem like you really want to work on the marriage which is shock to me since your the one who left but seem to be the one doing all the work. I wish my wife were giving me a chance.
after reading your threads though it seems as if she may be.
here is my question, how does this other man come in to play. she said she broke it off, but I don't believe it.
she only told me when I caught her and she was at his house the day before, but says she was there just to end it.
Can you still love your husband and want to possibly reconcile if there was another man involved
I know you said there is no other man in your situation, but if there was do you think it would be over for you.
I would hate to refer you to another website but here is my thread if you care to glance it over
