If she finds giving head disgusting why in the world would you want her to do that.
I once ate meat. I became a vegetarian for 20+ years. During my vege years if someone tried to serve me a steak and said "you used to eat it so eat it now!" I think I would be a bit put out.
I don't know why I keep taling about food except that I have skipped lunch and I must be hungry!
Look, I don't know why your wife, or mine for that matter, have changed. Perhaps they never really liked sex and just pretended to get us to marry them. Really, I don't think it even matters.
I am dealing with my situation by not initiating sex anymore. It means that I have little sex, but I feel better with the sex that I do have. I at least feel that I have a partner now . . . even though it only happens once-twice a month.
I am not happy about my sex life. I am not ready to divorce over it either. I guess I will just remain comfortably numb.
