I'm angry that she won't try. I'm also very disappointed in W. This is something I would not have expected to feel. She never gave me the chance to work with her. She has always given up when her R's hit the rocks. She is scared to put forth the effort required. She is scared to even think about having to put effoprt and work into an R. I thought she was smarter than that. I'm really questioning whether she is worth it. I love her, but why? Do I love the idea of W, not actually her?
I'm feeling very similar, though I do know that I love her and not the idea of her -- though I have had that thought before.
Really, this is pretty early in the game. If you're committed to your W, filing D papers is another obstacle to overcome, it doens't necessarily mean the end. There are examples in the success threads of this happening. It was also calming for me to hear from our D mediator that some of his clients have reconciled after filing for D. It happens. If you give up now, the D will definately happen. Make sure that's what you want before throwing in the towel completely.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
