I see what you guys are saying & thanks for the input. I just think it is different when you are still living in the same house. I think someone else said this before, but it is like there is a big elephant in the room that no-one is talking about. I am certainly not going to push for a conversation, and I do not want to do all the talking, but I want to make sure to give him opportunities to talk about what he is feeling. I also will feel it out at the time to see if it is appropriate. It is not something I have decided I am definately going to do, but just something I am considering if it seems right at the time.