Am I seperated? Looking for support/advice...

[dlt1]

I agree that if it's not working stop. But, if he isn't pushing for D, then I think it is working for now. You've kind of leveled off, but you want to be going forward. Unless you are seeing negative actions/reactions on his part right now, try to stay the course for a bit. As always, patience patience patience. For me, it was and is the most diffcult thing to fell like I'm not doing anything. When I did something, W reinforced her desire for a D. It's been one week and other than a needed convo regarding a F in town, we have not spoken. She was to call me to set up a time Sat to begin D discussions as far as who get what type stuff. I'm not calling until late that day, and that is only b/c I have to get in the house to take care of some bills and take some personal items to my current residence. No talk is good talk at this point.