How do you resist contacting the OP?

[saffie]

I was obsessed with OW. I did contact her. She didn't give Jack Sh*t about me or my kids. Contacting her just gives her some satisfaction. Don't let yourself think that she will feel bad about her involvement - she won't. You may feel good for a while but then you will in all likely hood feel really badly as though you have let yourself down.

I thought about OW as soon as I woke up in the morning. I spent my days having imaginary conversations with her in my head. I went to sleep at night dreaming about how I could plot her downfall - even death. I was pretty mad. I should have been putting all that energy into me and my kids.

I think at some point all nearly all of us have wanted to give the OP some sort of 'seeing to' but does it bring our spouses's back?

My 14yr old daughter phoned my H's OW and I think that did more than anything for us - it really shook the OW up!!

I know it's not much of a consolation but most of us have felt / do feel like you do about the OP. There was a thread a bit back about how to go about giving the OP some , (theoretical) WHOOPA$$.

Perhaps we should start that one up again. Can you remember where it is husband?

Saffie