rather than twisting his arm to get him to apologize for exactly what you think he needs to say....
maybe next time he says, "I'm sorry" (if he does, i suppose), ask him about what specifically, he is sorry for.
If he's sincerely sorry, maybe it will be enough for you. and if he isnt... well then he probably wont be able to come up with anything, and you'll know that he isnt actually apologizing for anything. [aka he's "sorry" that he got caught]


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle