Nomo, I know how you feel, I may have only been dbing since June, but I've been dealing with this crap since November, and I feel that even if my W wanted to come back and work on things I'm not sure if I'd be willing, and if I was it would be very difficult.
Me:38 W: 35 Married 11 years 2 daughters ages 7 and 3 D filed by her [url]http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1143353&page=2#Post1143353[/url]