Not replying to you, is rather disturbing. I'd say the probability he's off with some other woman, went up from 10%, to 30% Guilt stopping him from replying to your "have a nice time" wish. especially with your "joke" 'i'm totally jealous' quip. that might have hit a little too close to the mark for him.
Precisely my thoughts, too.
I suppose when he gets back I could just ask who he went with. Or not.
I have lost heart. I mean, c'mon. Leaving pillows on my bed-not taking a sleeping bag (unless there was one somewhere I don't kow about-we have a lot of 'stuff')-not even saying thanks or responding to my text message.
I don't know that I feel 'right' about bringing up volunteering. Plus, he is never going to miss me if I am always around. I will consider if he asks, but I am not going to throw myself at him. Not to mention, what if he recants on that? Do I really need MORE rejection? I think not. Being as how he keeps flip-flopping (wanting to get in my pants and then saying he wants to feel totally broken up the next day), I wouldn't be surprised if he said "nah, I don't think we should volunteer together. I want to feel totally broken up. I think that would confuse things." I can see him saying that.
Must be nice to be the one in the driver's seat. *sigh*
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
