There but the grace of God go I to never have received a DUI.
Baby steps. One of the problems is that we don't know what their steps mean. We know when we take baby steps, but I used to have people tell me my ex was taking baby steps. She was, but the were in the opposite directions. So who knows.
On the other hand, this is still relatively new, ie divorce, and you obviously don't want to rush back in like nothing happened or you are doomed to fail.
Now you asked about discussing discussing reconciliation. He brought it up, so I think it is fair game. But again, you need to have some real discussion. It can be something simple like "you brought up moving home and while that is not possible now, I am willing to look into working on a new relationship with you." Make sense?
