Mrs. Cac I don't taste the sperm because I haven't wanted to swallow. (Good think I'm not Cemar's wife.) I've been using techniques from The Guide on how to give a great bj without swallowing, and Cac seems to really like it. He says swallowing isn't important to him.

Do you suppose he's just letting me off the hook? Is it really important to men that their partner swallow?


No it is not a requirement in my books.

I don't understand some guys wanting, demanding, or needing the gal to swallow.

Question, how does one give a BJ w/o tasting?

There is pre-cum when a guy gets excited and if the giver isn't fast enough on the withdraw, some ejaculate gets in the giver's mouth.

BB and I tried oral once. She wasn't impressed (we were doing it wrong and in a place that wasn't too private) so we decided to pass.

I will say, if conditions and the prep was right, I would try it again but I don't have to try it. I don't have to force my curiosity on someone that doesn't want to experiment.

I enjoy doing it for him and I enjoy experiencing his pleasure, and that is a new experience for me........In the past, a few minutes of intense pleasure wasn't worth a week of treatment.

Mrs. Cac, I have about the same mindset concerning giving someone pleasure, it is exciting to see/feel someone experiencing pleasure.

BB had some frequent UTI's and that sent my SD lower. I understand the a few minutes of intense pleasure wasn't worth a week of treatment. even though I got the pleasure and BB had the pain. BTDT.

Who ever said men were not empathetic are wrong!

Lou