When one spouse changes to LD, it sucks ALL the life out of the marriage, it makes everything SERIOUS. The fun disappears. That is exactly the way I feel in my marriage.
I'm sorry you feel that way Cemar. But your statement is simply not true. LD does not equate with "serious" and "no fun." My H is laid back, fun, interesting. He is certainly not all about work and we always have time for fun with each other. Despite all of that, our SL is not what I'd call good. I know how hard it is to separate the two at times. But if you can manage it, I think you would be able to greatly improve your overall attitude toward the M. And don't tell me you cannot separate the two at all. That's bs.
