Yeah, I also thought H is scared to upset her in a any way. i think also b/c he is living for free w/ her & he mentioned once that she was asking for him to help her out until he told her of all his/our debts.

But in all seriousnesss who wants a R out of fear?that would be exhausting to me.

In our earlier IM convo I told him from the get go I did not want argue, but dont you ever just want some alone time w/ your kids? Will she "allow" that? I said I sure do enjoy my one on one time w/ them. His response- F*** you. I know he loves his kids to death but he is to busy playing the good behavior toher all the time & sooon that will die.

I stopped writing back & again told him I did not want to argue.