Nomopo's Thread - Is something happening to me?

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Good Luck Nomo,
I am very curious to hear more of how you are feeling. Wondering if 48 hours will put you in a new light? What you are feeling is kind of how I imagine I will begin to transition over the next few weeks as we work on our D.
Random laugh - W will work on D but not M!

Back on track, I have been trying to gain insight on detachment. Don't really have a handle on how it proceeds, and how I will know I am detached, but not just trying to be over her.
Just thought of something that may or may not make sense, but will throw it out:
Back in my single days I had a roommate whom I did not know. One of those roommate.com things. He needed a place to stay for an undetermined amount of time b/c he was most likely getting a divorce. He had also lost his job, a mutual decision between him and his company. He was pondering his next step in life. Decided to fly to DC and look into politics. Comes back very excited about the process to go to work for a Senator or Rep, (as a page or something? been 4-5 years ago), with the prospect of becoming a full time staffer. He was unsure with his failing M and all the changes. Did not know if he was being rash. He's calling all his friends and telling about his DC trip. I see him a day or two later and he tells me he'll pay me next month's rent, but will probably be gone in a couple weeks, moving to DC. I enquire how he came to the decision so quickly. Two things:
1. Had dinner with W and felt like it was a final goodbywe. They enojoyed each other's company. He told her about DC and she said she had wondered why he hadn't gone yet.
2. As he was talking to friends, he simply found himself talking about WHEN he is out there, instead of IF he went out there. Realized his mind was made up as he was talking.

Not sure if that helps or even makes sense.