Faith,
I moved to the Piecing forum last month, when things started looking more hopeful, even though there had not been any R talks at that time. I needed a forum that more reflected where my R was. I too felt that my situation had become incongruent with the crisis themes of the situations on the Infidelity forum, but am grateful for the wonderful support I received while there.

The benefit of being in the Piecing forum is to receive the advice of those who have been Piecing their marriages together for some time. I see the task of the LBS during infidelity as increasing personal power and reclaiming one's life. The task in Piecing is to continue GAL, but move into connection and intimacy.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching