What I was asking is if it is wrong for a Deiad man to think that his wife should be the initiator, or maybe he should just always PLAN on being the initiator and have no problems with that.
I think that if your looking at it from the point of view of sexual polarity then yes asking that a woman be the initiator is wrong. You are asking her to act from a masculine polarity this would diminish the sexual attraction between the two polarities.
Demanding that the feminine give you your masculine is a fools game.
