Cemar, you have conflated your wife's whole complexity of being into a singularity of sex drive. I see it from the other way. I see a person desire for sex dircetly effecting EVERY aspect of their lives, or thier personality. This may not happen to all LD people, but in my case, when my wife went from HD to LD, it changed her personality. Michelle writes about it in chapter one. When one spouse changes to LD, it sucks ALL the life out of the marriage, it makes everything SERIOUS. The fun disappears. That is exactly the way I feel in my marriage.
The difference between LD's and HD's is that in the LD lifestyle, the LD IS doing what they want, what they enjoy. But as the HD person, I am currectly being forced to live a LD lifestyle, and it is NOT fun, it basically is all work and no play.
