Fran,

I get what you're saying, but....eek. I don't know.....

I don't taste the sperm because I haven't wanted to swallow. (Good think I'm not Cemar's wife. ;\) ) I've been using techniques from The Guide on how to give a great bj without swallowing, and cac seems to really like it. He says swallowing isn't important to him. Do you suppose he's just letting me off the hook? Is it really important to men that their partner swallow?

Either way, what I'm doing now is a HUGE improvement over what I used to do (or not do, actually). I enjoy doing it for him and I enjoy experiencing his pleasure, and that is a new experience for me.

As for concerns about him doing oral on me, most of them relate to my autoimmune problems. TMI here.... I have been known to get an infection as the result of oral, so in the past, a few minutes of intense pleasure wasn't worth a week of treatment. However, now I'm on a great med that suppresses my over-the-top immune system, and it seems to help in this area as well. So, I'm interested in pursing this activity again.

Your paragraph about nature vs socialization is interesting. I will take it all under advisement.