H and I actually had a fun conversation via TM last night. We started out by making arrangements for our days with D10 and then he wanted to tell me about a great show he just went to. Things just went from there. While we were making some arrangements for D10, he was checking with me if I had some plans because something last minute came up. I thanked him for checking with me first and taking my plans into consideration. He replied that he wouldn't have it any other way. I told him that was very sweet and he actually said thanks. Times before when I would say something like this, he just wouldn't respond.
This made me think of a post RCR made about the WAS coming back with confidence and not groveling. It makes so much sense to me now. I was one of those who thought if H comes back he should be kissing my a$$ and begging for my forgiveness. RCR made a good point that this shows their weakness and might I say insecurity. We don't want that, we need someone who is confident about themselves and confident about their decisions.
At any rate, I wanted to write about it because it felt nice, but I know it doesn't mean much in the big scheme of things.
