Thanks for your honesty not an ex. I think I agree with you. I just really would prefer he would be the one to make that decision vs. me having to ask him. But it may have to come down to that...
Part of me was thinking of waiting until his next therapy session which is on thurs (1 week) but we'll see what happens this weekend.
When we got home last night he asked me how the concert was which I thought was nice & I was going to my therapy session and he actually offered to cook a steak for me while I was gone - which again I thought was nice and somewhat unexpected. When I got home from the therapy session I told him how much I appreciated him cooking the steak for me which I think he took sincerely. Then I tried to make some small talk with him. I hadn't seen him in 2 days, so I asked if anything was going on at work. His response was "Yes" - so I was like "oh really, what's going on?". And he responded seemingly annoyed "nothing, it is just busy". So I just let it be.
Then I told him that I had my review at my job and he said "What, did you get promoted again?". He said it with a smirk, so I think he was half kidding, but half serious. I can't help but feel that he is somewhat resentful of the fact that I have been very successful at my work. I don't think it is conscious on his part but something is definately behind the scenes there.
I did my own thing upstairs for a while and then came down to tell him "goodnight" and that was it.
Should be interesting to see what happens over the weekend...
