OT - not sure if your post was to me or just in general. But wanted to say I do agree, it was a big moment of realization for me when I saw that it was H in the wrong. It was a lot easier and less painful to blame her.
I still have that fleeting fantasy once in awhile though... less and less often as time goes on, but it does pop up at times.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
