Don't ya just love how the WAS/MLCer leaves and then all of the sudden it's sooooooooo hard for them and they need help with this or that. Give me a break!
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She claimed she's going to "do some thinking" over the next few days.
Honestly, I wouldn't put too much stock in this if she has done this before. She knows she is breaking your heart and maybe this is a way for her to feel a little less guilty. We don't really know what it means to her...shoot, she probably doesn't even know what it means to her. In any event, the key thing is to really keep your mind off of it and not pressure her. Regardless of what goes on in her head over the next couple of days, I would keep in mind that this is a nice gesture on her part and maybe you can appreciate the fact that she hasn't totally thrown you by the wayside. At the same time, I would caution you...this is a really big decision and for her to make a decision either way in a couple of days seems to be a bit unrealistic. If she wants to remain in the M, you both need to find each other again slowly. All of this takes time. As they say...it didn't take a couple of days for her to decide to leave and it won't take a couple of days for her to decide to come back.
