fearless:

COme on, you mean after you have just inveted your friend to the 100th time in a row to do something with you, that you would not start trying to find a better friend?

Think back to when people date. If I was asking out a woman, and she was showing no real desire for me after 3-4 dates, Why on earth would I continue to date her? Marriage is really no different then dating. Just because you get married does not mean you no longer have to show desire for your man.