The person being rejected can do his/her part by “holding onto him/herself,” taking on a little detachment, and not personalizing it. This is possible, so lonf as the LD partner does not reject very often. THe problem is that LD people often do not realize just how much rejection they are giving. IN my case, rejection easily exceeds 85% of the time. But even go beyond that, since the LD partner does not PURSUE the HD partner for sex, that is even MORE rejection to the HD partner. Sex is just like ANY activity, it really is only good when you are with an enthusiastic partner. What I don't understand is why LD women see no problem with NOT pursueing their husbands for sex, and yet they expect us to pursue them for QT? Why do LD women see relationships as one way streets, all going their way?
