Go to garychapman.org and you should be able to find it from there. He's the guy that wrote the "5 Love Languages" book. Each week he talks about different things in dealing w/ M and most of it has been really helpful. You get an email every day.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10