That sucks, I know, but one thing a friend of mine reminds me of often is that HE IS A GUY. They don't think about things like that the way we do, regardless of our sitch.

I totally understand how you feel, however, unfortunately they just don't get it sometimes. Hang in there, sweetie \:\)

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10