I have the impression that HD people, well men anyway, are pretty much ready for sex pretty much all the time. It's like you just switch a flip and bingo! 0-60 in an instant. It's always there whenever you need it. We don't even need to flip a switch, we are in the sex mode 24/7. I have to WORK at NOT thinking in sexual terms. This is why being in a SSM is uncomfortable for me. We are forced to live more towards the LD lifestyle, and the LD lifestyle is WORK not play, the LD lifestyle really is not much fun.
Do you like the feeling of being sexually desired by your husband?
