But you have to taste yourself to get over the ick factor. To be honest it tastes far pleasanter than sperm, especially smoker's sperm. Once I had tasted it I was completely free to let my H enjoy himself and to realise that he really is into it and not just doing it for me. It's completely liberating and far more enjoyable once you know that.
I think what this is all about is nature versus socialisation. Nature would let us do all kinds of depraved things including kill. Socialisation tries to place order over the chaos of our natures, insist that we remain faithful to one partner, that we don't kill people, that we work hard to earn our own money and not steal, that we care properly for our children etc. But there are times when we need to let nature have free reign to step over the line that our overly socialised selves dare not cross. One of the safest possible places to let nature rip is in the bedroom with a committed partner. But there are many people (including me for many years) who are far too well socialised to contemplate doing such a thing.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
