Haphazard - The secret I am now discovering is not to have ANY
Hairdog - Try as hard as you possibly can to NOT have any

I agree with this in my mind just feel it is very difficult to live. A good friend & I have had many conversations that the reason people are hurt or angry with another is because the person has not lived up to THEIR expecations, my mind understands this just hard to always apply. HD maybe I will try your preference theory, seems more flexible, less harsh.


Love at first sight is easy to understand; it's when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle. (Amy Bloom)