Yes you can DB/GAL there is nothing wrong with it. You are not cheating you are living. And what is put on the table during MC is up to both of you. That is the place to get it out but what happens there should stay there.
Quite right. And do these things for you so even if your H does turn out to be a lying cheating SOB, (which he may well not be),
you still end up with a better life and feeling better about yourself whatever the outcome.
Good Luck
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
